True Love ?????

I really dont understand what is meant by true love.I fell in love(or like) with many girls from my childhood .

I dont agree that i am attracted or infactuated to them because if i am attracted or infactuated to any one of them i would come up with some lust feelings towards them during my imaginations.I never had lust feeling towards them ,but i just imagined that i am with them,talking something etc. But i felt or dreamt of lust towards some girls or aunts whom i see in the sourroundings.so i can confidently say that i fell in love or i liked them so much.

After all these, a girl asked me recently or made a statement about me "That i did not love any one or i was only attracted to them ", and she said "i am not true in my love" and questioned me how can i love that many girls and also Said that i was a flurt.

So actually what is meant by true love,
1.We should only love one girl in our whole life.
Ans:: I bet this will contradict with every one in the world.
2.So we need to wait for a girl life time to accept our love .
Ans:: Its just waste in ones life waiting for a girl to accept our love.Unless his passion in life is that girl.
3.We should prove something to make girls believe our love.
Ans:: Here comes another point of security for girls to believe us.

As a boy I mention about girls but this same story holds good for boys too.

According to me Every single individual will have a particular instinct about opposite sex in them ,that will make them attract and fall in love or like the opposite sex people.
So in all our lifes if we like 10 girls surely they will have the same instinct in them which we like.

Let me tell you about an incident where a girl questioned me "How can a boy or a girl who are in deep love can think of another one". The best i understood is "The boy or girl liked the other based on their instincts ,what if they met a new one with the same instincts and sounds more positive than the one we had, obviously our heart wont listen to us and moves closely to new one.

According to me there is no true love between a boy and girl ,its purely a situation based thing. Sometimes if we get a lover with all the instincts that we like and we never get a chance to meet another one with same instincts and a better one then we will be loyal to our first one. Or if our lover surprises us by behaving in the way we like to see them or understands us and behaves accordingly ,then there will be a true love.

All Marriages are full of compromise .True love comes out only when the beloved one shows or buys or acts in interest of the other .

I came across a dialogue which make lot of sense to me.For a pair to be happy in life after their love marriage needs 3 important things.
1.Love
2.Time
3.Money
If any one of the above 3 falls short then the relation will not go smooth.If there are hicups in the middle because of the 3 things the couple compromises for couple of times .But if it repeats often the relation will be a disaster.