I am a hindu and one of my friend is a christian, so during one of our conversations, i keep on saying few things that are happening with me and the things that i am doing. She keep on saying "its a big sin " according to their bible, following as a response to the things i did.
Later i said i dont believe in all these books, i said believe in god and not to believe in all these holy books. And asked her to follow her heart to judge whether a particular act or a thing is right or wrong according to the situation.She did not accept a bit of what i said.She says some things are wrong with out judging it .The reason she states is "Its against my holy book".
Definitely things will change according to situation, an innocent boy may kill some one in protecting himself from a thief or a threat.How can we blindly say that innocent man committed a crime.
If we see in the above example, according to my friend and her holy book logic its a crime ,but according to me its a brave thing .
What's the authenticity of these holy books now. Definitely i believe in god ,but i dont believe in those books written by a priest,preacher or a prophet.
1.As things keep on change in todays world ,i believe these holy rules should change.
When these books were written ,
2.Do we have this much population,
3. this much competition
4.did people die of hunger
5.whether there is this much disparity between rich and poor
6.Do they have an insight of internet changing the whole world
I say these holy book rules may hold good at the time they were written,
but they should be re written now or we need to educate our coming generations to think about logic of the situation rather than blindly following these books.
The law we follow today in the world will punish the culprit after following many witness and many sessions of argument.The law will be changed accordingly to situation.
Many new things were ammended in Law books after its first copy ,so whats wrong with the holy books ,why they are being the same.
I dont know how come these true followers of holy books eat non vegetarian items. They will have their own reason for that question.
Give damn to others feelings ,but dont hurt others physically.Just think twice or thrice according to situation before making a decision. And believe in the super natural(GOD) force which is driving us .
Believe in you and not the holy books.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Expectations
Just follow one rule to be happy in life.That is not to have any expectations from anything or anyone.
The difficult thing here is programming your mind for not having any expectations.Off lately we became so addicted to expectations,it became so difficult to get rid of expectations. In this contemporary world, if we helped some one, we are expecting him to help you again when you are in need. Then it does not look like a help ,it can be termed as business.
Its the same thing between lovers,parents,elders ,children.
I tried few times by not expecting returns from few things or deeds but i am unable to apply it in all the situations.
The best thing about ignoring expectations is, we dont wait on results but we will just keep on working .So if we get something from it ,we will be happpy.But if we did not get anything from it.As we already ignored it, so we dont feel or think too much about it.Most marriages or love stories fail due expectations on one another.Rather than making love they are making it a business.
The difficult thing here is programming your mind for not having any expectations.Off lately we became so addicted to expectations,it became so difficult to get rid of expectations. In this contemporary world, if we helped some one, we are expecting him to help you again when you are in need. Then it does not look like a help ,it can be termed as business.
Its the same thing between lovers,parents,elders ,children.
I tried few times by not expecting returns from few things or deeds but i am unable to apply it in all the situations.
The best thing about ignoring expectations is, we dont wait on results but we will just keep on working .So if we get something from it ,we will be happpy.But if we did not get anything from it.As we already ignored it, so we dont feel or think too much about it.Most marriages or love stories fail due expectations on one another.Rather than making love they are making it a business.
Friday, August 7, 2009
Advice And Advise
Advice:
Opinion about what could or should be done about a situation or problem,
a proposal for an appropriate course of action.
Advise:
To give information or notice to,to inform,with of before the thing communicated ,as, we were advised of the risk,to offer advice to .
The Best way to put a view on above topics is
"I never take advice. Since no two human beings can ever be on the same physical, intellectual or emotional planes and also on top of that in life everything is pretty much so unpredictable and works at random it is stupid for one person to listen to another person’s advice. By RGV"
After reading the above para one can understand what is the importance we should give to others advice,its better to know facts about the things and apply it naturally to your situation and analyze your abilities and inablities to justify it and make a decision.
If you are strong and stick to your decision ,the outcome or result will not bother you at all.Even though its a failure you will be happy with lesson you learnt about analyzing your abilities and inabilities.
Opinion about what could or should be done about a situation or problem,
a proposal for an appropriate course of action.
Advise:
To give information or notice to,to inform,with of before the thing communicated ,as, we were advised of the risk,to offer advice to .
The Best way to put a view on above topics is
"I never take advice. Since no two human beings can ever be on the same physical, intellectual or emotional planes and also on top of that in life everything is pretty much so unpredictable and works at random it is stupid for one person to listen to another person’s advice. By RGV"
After reading the above para one can understand what is the importance we should give to others advice,its better to know facts about the things and apply it naturally to your situation and analyze your abilities and inablities to justify it and make a decision.
If you are strong and stick to your decision ,the outcome or result will not bother you at all.Even though its a failure you will be happy with lesson you learnt about analyzing your abilities and inabilities.
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